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March 25, 2010

Gratitude- March 25, 2010

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 1:13 pm

I haven’t done a gratitude list on here in a while, so I thought that maybe it was about time that I do so. In spite of not listing them here daily, I’m still grateful for everything in my life. I think it’s something we should all take a moment to think about each day.

My Gratitude List for March 25, 2010.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Sunshine, which meant that I could spend the entire day outside in the sun with my laptop working.
  • The delicious sweetness of fresh pineapple
  • Truth- because it really does set you free.  Don’t believe me?  Ask those who live the lie and see what they tell you.
  • Simple pleasures like playing ‘balley balley’ with JJ and seeing the happiness in his eyes.
  • Survivor and the laughter it brought me.

March 17, 2010

Answered Prayers

Filed under: Gratitude,Life,Shop til ya Drop,Techy — gardener @ 2:37 pm

The past couple of days have been really difficult for me.   In fact, I was starting to think that things were going to continue getting worse and that getting better just wasn’t a menu option.   Until today.    I asked on Facebook for prayers, and I know they were sent up because they were answered in a big way.

I had plans to meet my friends Anna and Bobbi today for lunch, and this morning when I woke up, all I could do was cry.   As much as I wanted to see them, I didn’t want to do anything.  I wanted to go to bed and stay there.   But I didn’t.  I  smiled that the sun was shining and I met my friends.   We had a wonderful time, and I felt better.

The outpouring of love and prayers that I felt from a simple request on FB meant a great deal to me.   I could feel it.   My prayers were answered and by the time this evening rolled around, I felt much, much better.    I can’t say that I’m without grief, because I’d be lying, but what I can say is that God is good and my prayers were answered.

I also came home to find that my friend Kimmie had sent me a Magic Jack, so I bought a new phone to use with it, and I set it up.  I now have a number that people can use to call me for FREE!   Don’t you just love that word?  I do!   Thank you Kimmie for blessing me, and for brightening my day even more.  You are the BEST!

Thank the rest of you, for praying on my behalf.  It means more than you know.

March 16, 2010

When All Else Fails- Be Grateful

Filed under: Gratitude,Life,Memories — gardener @ 12:28 pm

Last night I had a mini- (ok not so mini) meltdown. It came late, at 12:30 at night, but I guess those kind of things don’t really have a schedule, they just come and go when they please. It wasn’t pretty, and I’d like to say that I woke up this morning feeling like a million bucks, but I’d be lying to you, and to myself.

I’m not being negative, but I’m greiving and these things take time. I can’t apologize for it, because it just is what it is.

What I can do, is take a little time to be grateful for the things in my life today and share them with you. Maybe it will inspire you in the midst of your own life to take a moment, pause and just be grateful.

My Gratitude List for March 16, 2010

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Bobbi joining us today at Bible Study and having some time to chat with her and catch up in the train.
  • Sunshine and warmer temperatures.
  • Going for an after dinner walk with JJ and Marcel in the sunshine.
  • A light workload.
  • Illy Coffee with Vanilla Coffee-Mate

March 14, 2010

Soccer Sunday

Filed under: Gratitude,Health/ Fitness,Life — gardener @ 9:22 am

I guess I should call this Soccer Sunday, because Marcel and Tom (Desere’s son) are watching what they are calling ‘the’ soccer match of the season. I’m not sure that I would agree with them, but I’ve been hearing a whole lot of screams coming from the living room, which assures me that their team is doing well.

In fact, as I’m typing this, Marcel slowly pushed the door open and held up two fingers. That means that his team has two points and the other team has none. Obviously this is a good thing. I don’t think I’ve ever known a person who loves soccer the way Marcel does. He loves soccer the way my diddy loves football and the way my brother loves baseball or golf.

It’s the little things that make him happy, and even though they are loud in there, I can’t help but smile at the joy something so simple brings him. It’s something we can all learn from, gaining joy and pleasure from the little things.

March 6, 2010

Gratitude- March 6, 2010

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 3:58 am

I’ll be the first one to admit that I really am struggling with gratitude at the moment, although I know that in these times of sadness I really need to pause and look around me and be aware of just how many things there are in my life that I need to be grateful for. Truth is, I know that I have a blessed life, and I really am grateful for so many things, only now my vision seems to be clouded with grief.

I decided to try to focus on the positive and recognize a few of the things I have to be grateful for today.

My Gratitude List for March 6, 2010.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Having the opportunity to know Carol and have her as my best friend for many, many years.   She was a ray of sunshine and her laughter and loving spirit was infectious.
  • The friends and family who have rallied around me during this time of loss and have showed me their love and support and assured me that I am not alone.
  • Marcel, for taking off from work, just so he could be here with me.
  • JJ and Mister M. for making me smile through the tears.
  • Having the strength to be able to find the words to share a little of Carol through my eyes.   It should be read today at the funeral.

February 24, 2010

Gratitude – February 24, 2010

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 11:46 am

I haven’t written a dailiy gratitude list in a while, but even though I haven’t, I still take some time each day to be grateful for all the wonderful things in my life. There are many, and I know without a doubt that I am blessed.

My Gratitude List for February 24, 2010.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • An afternoon spent with friends over lunch, great conversation and laughter.
  • The fact that the snow has once again stopped and what fell yesterday didn’t stick to the ground.
  • The beautiful bouquet of roses that Desere brought me today, just because.
  • Rich Chocolate Velvet coffee and a super healthy banana muffin – a recipe that I created myself.
  • Marcel, for jumping in and helping me with little things when I’ve had cramps so bad I couldn’t hardly move.

February 22, 2010

All For a Reason

Filed under: Gratitude,Inspiration,Life — gardener @ 11:53 am

I was re-reading an article a little while ago that Martha Beck wrote that appeared in an “O” magazine back in 2008. The article is about time management and how that we often think that something is important just because it’s important to someone else. A particular quote from that article resonated with me when I read it for the first time in 2008, and yet I was reminded of that same quote when I read the article again today.

To live richly and avoid regret, we must give priority to things of real importance.

Now I know that each of us prioritize and compartmentalize things in different ways, so what may be important to me, may not even receive a second look from you. But what important is that we all realize that in order to make the most out of these beautiful lives we’ve been given, we need to really learn the difference in what really IS important and what may SEEM important but really isn’t.

The article goes on to say: Pay attention, and you’ll notice that even when you’re under “urgent” pressure to do something unimportant, it feels discordant and wrong. Do what really matters, and your life comes into harmonious alignment.. From there it gives information and tips on how you can prioritize your life and it works as long as you read the article, take notes and learn from it by applying the principals to your own life.

Even though I actually own the “O” magazine that this article was printed in, I actually received this article via email today from the “O” magazine mailing list. I hadn’t thought about that article in a while, nor had I practiced the principals, and believe me, my life shows it.

Do you think it was a coincidence that I received that article three days after recommitting myself to a work out routine and healthy eating and have been wondering how I’m going to find time to fit in work and exercise without having to get up at the crack of dawn? I can answer that one for you- Nothing is coincidence. There’s a reason for everything, and this was a reminder that I needed. I’m grateful that it came when it did.

February 12, 2010

Gettin’ Grateful-

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 4:03 pm

In the midst of all my busyness, I’ve still had many great things happen this week, and those definitely don’t go unnoticed. I’m grateful for all that happens in my life, even the not so great stuff- (and there’s been a little of that this week as well) because I know it serves a purpose and teaches me something.

SO, with all that in mind, I’ll share just a few of the things that I’m grateful for not only today, but this week.

My Gratitude List for February 12, 2010.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • The beautiful bouquet of roses that Marcel gave me yesterday as an early Valentine’s Day present.
  • Receiving the package of steel-cut oats and Coffee-Mate that mom and dad sent me.
  • Phone calls and notes with my BFF’s.
  • The fact that JJ is much smarter than I ever gave him credit for.
  • Being on the end of a work week and starting the weekend.
  • Snow Days.
  • The fact that there are natural acne treatments out there.
  • Chocolate velvet coffee
  • The new season of Survivor starting again
  • Dinner reservations at one of Jamie Oliver’s restaurants.

February 6, 2010

Gratitude- February 6, 2010

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 1:39 pm

Life has been a blur the last week and a half with first Marcel being sick, and me getting sick not long after.   We celebrated our wedding anniversary, spent a day thinking about the anniversary of Marcel’s brothers death, which was five years ago on the 4th.   Today, we spent the day celebrating the birthday’s of two very special people.

There have been ups and downs lately, as it is with the ebb and flow of life.   On the whole, life is fabulous.  Every breath is something to celebrate.

My Gratitude List for February 6, 2010.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Spending the afternoon with Pieter, Bobbi, Carrie Ruud and of course, Marcel.
  • My oats, which mom and diddy mailed to me yesterday.
  • Mom and diddy, for getting my oats in the mail.
  • Reservations for Valentine’s Day at a restaurant I’ve been wanting to visit for a while.
  • A safe trip to and from Carrie and Ruuds’ today.

February 1, 2010

Gratitude- February 1, 2010

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 12:09 pm

It’s hard to believe that we’ve flown through the first month of January and we have entered the door of February. So far, I’m happy with the way that this year is going, and I’m looking forward to all the possibilities that await and will make this a great year.

My Gratitude List for February 1, 2010.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Marcel for doing the dishes and vacuuming the floor today when he knew I didn’t feel like doing it.
  • Having groceries in house, even though I probably shouldn’t have got out to get them.
  • The little nap I took earlier, which obviously my body needed.
  • Rich, dark coffee.
  • Tylenol- without it I don’t know how I would have survived these last few days.
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