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May 21, 2009

Changing Gears

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 10:24 am

I’m sorry if I’m a little quiet these days.  I have alot going on in this head of mine, and I’m working on attempting to sort out the cobwebs.    Oddly, I’ve been feeling alone, but yet alone is just what I need at this time- so it’s an odd thing.

I believe that sometimes we have to switch gears- pause, and think about where we are, and what direction we’re going in.  Sometimes we have to set our sails on a different path.

In the meantime, in spite of the cobwebs, I have so much to be thankful for, and those things I can’t help but share.

My Gratitude List for May 21, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • The 1 1/2 hour bike ride that we went on today.
  • A new perspective on several different things happening.
  • Mashed cauliflower.
  • Mister M. who never fails to make me laugh.
  • Fresh air to breathe.

May 18, 2009

Great Start to the Week

Filed under: Gratitude,Life — gardener @ 10:37 am

There are some Mondays that you find yourself wanting to crawl back in bed, cover your head and hide from the world.   In my day, I’ve actually had plenty of those, but the start of this week was NOT one of those days.

Marcel and I decided that we’d get up and at it early this morning so that we could get all the grocery shopping done, plus catch up on a few things around here before the day flew past.   He’s working tonight, so that leaves me ‘home alone’, and I usually have an easy day in the kitchen on Monday’s during the winter and spring months, because his mom makes soup for the family on the weekend, and sends us all home with a huge container. 

Today, I decided to make something different, and we’ll have the soup tomorrow.   We had chicken today, and chicken soup tomorrow- so it looks like the theme this week is starting out with chicken- ‘cluck-cluck’.

The sun is shining today and the skies clear, and aside from the 40 mph winds, it’s a perfect day for a bike ride.    I knew Marcel didn’t really want to ride, but he did anyway, because he knew I really wanted the exercise.  To say that it was difficult with the winds would be an understatement, but one thing is for sure- it definitely got the heart rate up.

We stopped in at my favorite cafe in the town center, and I had the same thing I always have when I go there- chocolate cappuccino.    It always makes me smile when we come in and sit down, and they ask us if we want the chococcino and the cappuccino.  I like it that they remember.  Little things like that mean a great deal to me.

Afterwards we biked for another half hour, and along the way I took a turn too quickly and wiped out by hitting the curb.  I could see it coming, so when I hit the curb I jumped instead of falling with my bike, but it shook me up for about thirty seconds and then I was back on the bike and continuing on the journey.

Once we arrived at home, I was feeling pretty energetic, so I decided to go for a run on the elliptical, and while I did that, Marcel not only vacuumed the entire place, but when I finished, I walked into the kitchen and he was doing the dishes as well.    He’s always great about helping when I’m busy, but I didn’t expect that, but again – it’s one of those little things that mean a great deal.

Now, Marcel is napping- Mister M. is napping, and the only sound I hear is the birds singing outside and the tap-tap-tapping of the keyboard.   It’s going to be a great week.

How is your week shaping up?

My Gratitude List for May 18, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Marcel doing both the vacuuming and the dishes.
  • That I didn’t get hurt today on my bike ‘wipe-out’.
  • Great prices for fresh fruits and  vegetables at the grocery store.
  • Having a ‘home alone’ night.
  • The flowers I planted, which are starting to bloom.

May 17, 2009

Quiet Time

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 9:25 am

Marcel has gone off to his moms for Sunday dinner, and I decided to stay home. I really needed the quiet time to catch up on a few things around here, and I wasn’t sure how well the house would be aired out with the weather being the way it is, and my allergies couldn’t take any hint of cigarette smoke, so I stayed home. Marcel brought me a plate of food, that I’ll go eat as soon as I finish with this entry, then I’d like to get some vacuuming done, plus a few other little things.

I have several things that I’d like to accomplish this week, so I need to make a few lists. I find that I am much more productive if I make a list, and actually stick to it.

My tummy is rumbling, so before I go- My Gratitude List for May 17, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Marcel, for not waking me this morning- which allowed me to sleep in.
  • Making it through the new routine on the elliptical that I’ve created-  it was time to kick things up a notch.
  • The paint in Marcel’s jackets coming out in the wash- (see http://www.littlesouthofsanity.com for details)
  • Being aware.
  • Staying home from my mom-in-laws and enjoying a little quiet time.

May 15, 2009

Gratitude

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 8:35 am

Today, I was reminded by several different things, just how very blessed I am, and how we all tend to take so many things for granted- things that could impact our lives in a major way if they were different. I found myself wondering if I would handle those things with the dignity and grace that I see others handling them with, and I honestly don’t know. I’d like to think that I would, but I do believe that until you walk in someones shoes, or are finding yourself in a similar position, you never really know.

I was reminded that EVERYTHING in life counts- every moment, every thought, every single action- what we do with what we are given Matters.

I would love to know what YOU are grateful for in your own life- EVERYONE has something to be grateful for, even those who doubt aren’t looking hard enough.

My Gratitude List for May 15, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • My Eyesight- which allows me to see.
  • An umbrella to keep me dry when it’s raining.
  • Color
  • Glucosamine, which hopefully is helping my knee heal.
  • Soft falling rain, without wind.

May 9, 2009

Beautiful Day

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 2:14 pm

Marcel is working again tonight, and after calling mom, I’m going to curl up on the sofa and watch “He’s Just Not That Into You”.   I started watching it last night, but I ended up falling alseep so don’t remember much of what happened.

Aside from going to the Black Market today to pick up some almonds, dried cranberries, and dates, Marcel and I finally got the flowers planted that I bought a week ago.   Between being busy and the weather not cooperating, I hadn’t been able to get them planted, but they’re done, which means it’s time for me to get shopping for the rest of the flowers I need to get everything in tip-top shape.

Right now, I really want to call mom and get this movie started, or I’ll never get it watched.

Tomorrow is going to be a busy day with Mother’s day and birthday parties, so you may not see much of me.

My Gratitude List for May 9, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • My Mommy, who I love and admire so very much.
  • My mom, who I consider to be the best mom EVER!
  • My mom, who is not only beautiful, but brilliant.
  • My mom, who is one of my very best friends.
  • My mom,  just for being her.

May 8, 2009

Babies, Babies, Everywhere

Filed under: Gratitude,Life — gardener @ 9:28 am

After my friend Bobbi left, I checked emails to find a message from someone who is almost like a sister to me. She wanted to ask me to be praying for them, as they found out recently they are pregnant. I’m SO excited for her and her family. That makes three people that are near and dear to my heart, that are pregnant at this very moment. I’m SO excited for them all.

My mom and sister-in-law asked me last week if Marcel and I were still trying to have a baby, and I told her that even though we would both love to have a child, that I felt we were getting too old to actually carry a child. Don’t yell and scream at me- I know, I know people do it all the time these days, but I personally feel that for ME, that I’m not sure I’d want to bear a child at almost 42. I would love to be a mother though, and adoption is something that we’ve been considering, but still needs more research.

I would love to have a child, and I think I would be an OK mom, but I’ve never been one to think that if I don’t have a child, that my life is not complete. I’m not sure why I have never had that feeling, but I’ve also never had that – ‘the biological clock is ticking’ feeling. I AM a firm believer that what should happen, will.

In the meantime- I’m thrilled that three people that I know and love are expecting a little bundle of joy. I’m going to be a great auntie 🙂

My Gratitude List for May 8, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Great news from ‘home’.
  • Delicious, Zero fat – Greek Yogurt
  • Paperchase Products, which I love.
  • My fluffy dotted pj’s that I’ve kept on all day.
  • Soup days, which means no cooking.

May 6, 2009

The Window To YOUR World.

Filed under: Gratitude,Inspiration — gardener @ 7:39 am

I’m eternally curious, much to the frustration of my parents, and some of my friends.

I often wonder, if we could peek inside the windows that represent the lives of others, what we would see? I also wonder what others would see if they had the opportunity to peek into my life- what my life says about me- what my actions and reactions project to others?

“Life is not a ‘brief candle.’ It is a splendid torch that must be made to burn as brightly as possible before it is handed on to the next generation.” -George B. Shaw

Some of you may have known my original blog- the title was “Let Your Light Shine”. It represents many things to me, but mostly it reminds me to ‘shine on’ in spite of what speedbumps or roadblocks life may send my way. There are times when in order to do that, I must retract, rethink and create a new game plan, and others when I rally around those I love the most, reaching out to them for their help and wisdom, aways knowing that even in those darkest days, there are good things happening.

Today, I was going through some old emails, and came across these words of ‘wiz’dom from Spark People.

Light is meant to be shared. If you try to hoard it or keep it covered, out of everyone’s sight, you’ll just end up smothering it. Try to close it in your fist so it doesn’t get away, and it burns you. You can’t possess light. All you can do is appreciate it, use it and help others use it, too. In the same way, your life is also meant to be shared. Many people look upon their lives as something that must be jealously protected and stowed away. They block out others and are afraid to share their time. What happens? Their spark suffocates. But there are others who have an abundance mentality. They believe, correctly so, that there’s plenty of life to go around, that all flames get brighter when we share them. They know that when we invest energy in others, we get even more in return. Don’t sacrifice your chance at a bonfire because you’re too busy trying to keep a tiny match from going out.

 

My Gratitude List for May 6, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • The burn on my  hand this morning when I spilled coffee on it, not being much worse than it was.
  • “Home Alone” time.
  • Marcel coming to my ‘rescue’ when I spilled coffee on my hand.
  • Fresh Cod Fish for tonight’s dinner.
  • Shining lights.

May 3, 2009

Healing

Filed under: Gratitude,Health/ Fitness — gardener @ 7:27 am

I think I’ve finally become to a crossroads where my knee has begun to heal.  After spending several days in pain from what I considered to be ‘overdoing it’, the pain has subsided, and it appears as though my knee is on the road to recovery.   I’ll admit, that I haven’t been walking any  marathons, but aside from it being a bit sore, it seems to be closer to 100% than it has been in weeks.  

I still am not sure what the problem is, so I’ll definitely be making an appointment with my doc when he returns from vacation later this week.  There may be nothing they can do, but hopefully he’ll at least be able to give me an idea of what the problem could be.   I still suspect it’s a pinched nerve issue, but I’d like to hear from the professionals.  After all, my doctorate came out of a box of Cracker Jacks. heehee

In a moment, we’ll head to my mom-in-laws for Sunday dinner.   I’m sitting here sipping green tea, that I brewed myself, and I have to say, it’s delicious.  I’m a little picky about my green tea, and prefer to only drink Lipton, but each evening I allow two bags to steep with boiling water, add it to a 1 1/2 liter bottle with cold water, and leave it in the fridge until the following day.   Throughout the day, I drink the entire 1 1/2 liters-  then repeat aforementioned process for the following day.   It’s good, AND even more importantly, it’s good for me.   No sugar, no sweetners of any type- just pure green tea and water.     It’s my summer drink of choice.

Speaking of drinks of choice-  every now and then I indulge in a glass of Coke Zer0.  It’s ironic, because for years,  I wouldn’t go near any type of Cola drink.  I loved Mt. Dew, Dr. Pepper, Sprite etc, but Colas were not for me.  Now, when I drink a diet beverage, it’s Coke Zero.   Funny how things change.  

What is your drink of choice? and Why?

It’s about time to head to my mom-in-laws, so I had better wrap this up, before Marcel comes in here and starts rushing me.

My Gratitude List for May 3, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • My knee feeling much better than it has been.
  • Rainy day mornings which led me to lounge in bed longer than usual.
  • Biking 10 miles yesterday. YEAHH!
  • Early birthday present from my sister-in-law. (She couldn’t wait to give it to me.)
  • Fresh brewed, delicious, cold, Green Tea.

May 1, 2009

Curious???

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 11:29 am

Guess

The above photo is a close up of some particular type of orchid, and the name eludes me. What struck me about these little beauties (aside the fact that they are yellow, one of my favorite colors), is that when I looked at them closely, the reminded me of something.

I wonder if you see what I see. What do they remind you of, if anything?

I’ll share my thoughts tomorrow.

My Gratitude list for May 1, 2009.
Today I’m Grateful For:

  • The pain in my knee being less than it was.
  • Another gorgeous day in the neighborhood.
  • Marcel, for making me laugh when I really don’t feel like it.
  • Time
  • Baby ducklings.

April 24, 2009

As Promised

Filed under: Gratitude,Seasons — gardener @ 9:03 am

I finally had a chance to go through a few of the photos from our trip to the tulip fields earlier this week.  I’ll share a few now, and since I took about 150 that day, I can easily say I have more to share, including some macro shots of other floral subjects, that I’ll share at a later time.

Right now, I’m rushing around getting ready for dinner, and then we’re heading off a lilttle later to meet up with Hein and Desere at Aloha.  The weather couldn’t be more perfect, and I’m looking forward to spending some time watching the sun go down and relaxing.

How do you plan to spend your weekend???

Trip to the Tulip Fields

Trip to the Tulip Fields

 

 

Tulips, Tulips and More Tulips.

Tulips, Tulips and More Tulips.

Tulips

Tulips

Tulips

Tulips

My Gratitude List for April 24, 2009.
Today I’m Grateful For:
  • Lunch today with my friend Anna.
  • Marcel picking me up at the train staion in the town next to ours, so I didn’t have to wait for the following train to our town.
  • An evening at Aloha with Hein and Desere.
  • Dark roasted- fresh brewed coffee.
  • The colors and beauty of spring.
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