Have you ever been on the outside looking in at someone who you know is a train-wreck waiting to happen, yet in spite of trying to talk to them and hope they will see what is happening- they instead pummet themselves into the victim role and refuse to see that the choices that they are making and have made are a direct result of the things that are happening in their life?
That’s happening with someone I know right now- It’s hard to watch and no matter what- they don’t want to hear about making changes, even if it could mean making their problems at least maybe a little less severe. Some wheels, once set in motion can’t be stopped, but some can at least be slowed with different choices.
It is painful to see- but we are all powerless to the choices of another.